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anal sex was something i decided i would just never, ever do. Then my boyfriend, my darling, my love, the man i planned to be with until i died, suggested we try anal too. Keep in mind that if youre not using a condom, anal sex is a higher-risk sex act. anal sex is still somewhat taboo, but this foggy belief is dispersing, thankfully, because anal sex is the shit (ok, poor phrasing, i see that now -- but expect more to come). before embarking on the full monte of penetrative anal sex, you canand should!give lighter anal play a try. This is open to interpretation and could mean anything from toys to fingers or. and having sex when youre super turned on (instead of like, routine post-date night sex) is way more satisfying overall. first, lets get real about what anal sex is a penis or sex toy is going up your butt, so the fear that you might poop is common and normal. some people say that having an orgasm before you try anal sex is a good way to get super relaxed. So get down with yourself, or solicit your partner to help you out! So get down with yourself, or. Anal sex requires a lot of trust and patience when youre starting off and a lot of lube. Dont set the expectation that youre going to do it successfully on the first attempt. there are a ton of sex shops online that you can buy anal-specific toys from to help you get used to the feeling of having something in your ass a butt plug or a beginners dildo is a good start. i like to tell clients to have at least one orgasm before having anal sex, she says. Anal sex can be nerve-wracking and some of us have anxiety about our first times.